Flower Essences are vibrational liquid remedies containing the energetic healing patterns of flowers. They are taken orally a few drops at a time. Flower essences are used to enhance and increase our health and well being and work to prevent or treat imbalances by realigning our emotional, mental and spiritual selves.
I have been using flower essences for over 10 years. I benefited from them while I was pregnant and used a series of essences for the mother to be. They are subtle, pure and more powerful than they appear. They work directly on our energy field and they are part of my "energy medicine" tool box. Flower essences are powerful remedies for healing sexual wounds and dissolving blocks that keep you from having a healthy and fully satisfying sex life. I'd like to introduce you to a couple and talk about their properties and expressions.
Clary Sage
Salvia Sclarea (lavender and white)
Description: A fast growing biennial with aromatic hairy leaves and panicles of tubular purple and white flowers with prominent lavender bracts. The flower has a forked purple tongue and appears in summer. All parts of the plant are covered with pungent oil and it grows to about 3 feet in height. It is grown widely in the world.
Harmonious Expression: Being in a state of roundedness and a connection to one's "gut" or primal self. Feeling primal strength and animality. Feeling the power of the earth in one's solar plexus; clarity and knowing-ness about who one is. Sensuality from being centered and connected to one's power.
Inharmonious Expressions: Lacking in groundedness, being disconnected from one's instinctual self. Fear of one's own sexuality and sensuality.
Clary Sage flower essence is useful for ungroundedness from too much "air" in one's astrological chart, or from past use of substances such as Marijuana, alcohol, etc. Good for when one is experiencing a challenge being in the earth plane in a more physical and grounded way. Also helpful for those uncomfortable with the primalness of sexual expression. Can be used as an aphrodisiac when combined with a heart centered essence such as Rose essences. Useful to vitalize 1st Chakra functions.
Hibiscus (Hibiscus acetosella). This one is close to heart and home for me because it was one of the first flowers I ever knew. It was always around me when growing up near the equator. During the spring of last year, I bought a small hibiscus plant for my indoor Zen garden. I wanted to include energies and symbols from my early years when I was creatively unspoiled. It kept budding and budding. It would die and new ones would grow instantly. I enjoyed the re-visit of the hibiscus spirit and its deeply inspiring presence no doubt woke up a sleeping spot of my sexual past.
Harmonious Expression: Warmth and responsiveness in female sexuality; integration of soul warmth and bodily passion.
Inharmonious Expression: Inability to connect with one's female sexuality; lack of warmth and vitality, often due to prior exploitation or abuse.
In many cases, sexual expression becomes cold, uninhibited and unresponsive. The Soul can no longer contact the feeling part of the Self and infuse it with love and caring. Hibiscus flower essence helps women to reclaim their sexuality, and to restore these soul forces with authenticity and vitality.
It can aid many women who have been sexually traumatized, and it is also generally beneficial for all modern women who have unconsciously absorbed media images and other stereotypes of dehumanized sexuality.
This remedy is sometimes also indicated for men who need to develop a stronger relationship to feminine warmth and positive sexuality. Hibiscus creates flowing warmth throughout the body and soul, especially healing the sexuality. Hibiscus flower essence frees sexual energy. It enhances openness by releasing emotional blockages in the heart. It liberates sexual energy blocks in women and helps to facilitate open communication through the heart chakra.
It is important to understand that flower essences are not essential oils. And though they can come as an herb, incense or essential oil they are not the same in form and function. And they certainly do not have the scent of flowers.
Flower essences smell of brandy or vinegar with which they are preserved. They are not homeopathic medicine since they do not follow the law of "like-curing-like". They are both in the category of vibrational remedies since they both create healing not through the active physical ingredients, but rather through a vibrational (or electrical) pattern. There are no physical parts of the original source in the finished remedy; there is instead an etheric print that has the ability to resonate within the body.
Flower essences are only one of the many tools I use in my holistic health practice. They are powerful, effective, and safe. They have been supportive and I continue to use them successfully time and time again. I also give them to my son and dog.
Angelique Shofar is a sexual wellness & sensual lifestyle coach; a tantric yoga/dance teacher & freelance writer. She facilitates sensual~ cultural events, retreats & workshops around holistic sexuality, wellness & empowerment. She is the founder and director of The Spirit of Wellness. Visit her online at: http://thesexualgriot.typepad.com/ and her blog at http://sexualgriot.blogspot.com/ Email her at: thesexualgriot@gmail.com
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Monday, July 21, 2008
Wednesday, July 16, 2008
Erotic Food Power!
Have you ever considered that perhaps it's the foods you eat that thwart your sex drive? Or that those pleasure foods and drugs are diminishing your sex drive and robbing you of the beneficial nutrients vital to sexual health and well being? Is it any wonder that the love making patterns of most humans today are that of an animalistic nature in which the aggressor is rushed and in pursuit of an orgasm to satisfy the raw uncultivated sexual urges? That IS animal behavior!
Having been born and raised in another culture, I have to admit that eating became a habit of emotional response after living in America for some time. The colorful, rich, perfect looking food commercials that lace the screens of the "tell-lie-vision" and magazine pages, makes a big impression on the psyche. With so many years of expressing and seeking sensual, erotic moments through food I know first hand, the power of food...... as well as the dis-empowerment associated with food. The many times when my desire for physical pleasure and stimulation were unmet naturally, I sought ecstasy through foods. And it came with a price!
Eating is a highly erotic experience. The process is like love-making in many respects. The foreplay can be seen as the preparation that extends into the dishing up of food onto yours and your lovers plate. Eating it is the actual love-making phrase when deep penetration and mastication takes place. The saliva excreted as love juice mixes the flow and enhances the potency of those pleasurable moments. The intimate and sensual edge of eating together, in same bowl, with well washed hands - as spoon- is an erotic eating tradition that I know so well. Growing up on the first continent brought intimacy and trust through eating from the same bowl or calabash with others.
But we are too busy to even slow down and experience the erotic power of foods here in the wild wild West. And in seeking ways to enhance intimate relationships, we often overlook simple paths like the erotic nature of food -a basic necessity. Slowing down is a fundamental aspect of Tantra. I used to have "dates" with myself where I would turn my telephone ringer offer and take my own sweet time cooking dinner and preparing the table for me, I and myself! Those were powerful and pleasurably silent moments filled with sounds rather than words.
The Tantric tradition is in favor of eating in moderation and choosing food that is seasonal. When we are present within ourselves we can hear and feel the body more clearly. Conscious cooking and conscious eating bring out the erotic power in food that may ring, sounds and feel different from person to person. In those moments the messages we get from our foods can open us to the erotic and or healthy energies of foods
In Hatha Yoga traditions one should refrain from eating excessively acid, bitter, salty or pungent foods. And advises that "Half the stomach should be filled with food, one quarter with water or other liquid, and one quarter should be empty to aid the practice of breath control." How do you measure, you're probably asking? I'd like to know myself.
The mental attitude of the person preparing the food pervades each item like the herbs and seasonings that penetrate the outer layers and the exterior of our edibles. Likewise, the mental body in turn influences the digestive process. Eating while upset, or while sitting before the television or behind the wheel takes away from the sacramental quality of eating. It is this sacramental quality that is filled with the power of erotic. The link to erotic power begins through the blessing of and remembrance of the source of the food. I always fill my food with love and light, raising the vibration of what I put into my mouth and body. Rushing to make already quick meals only robs you of the healing erotic and aphrodisiac properties of cooking. These are meant to be God filled meditation moments that symbolize and activate the nurturing and nourishing our body needs. Cooking (and arranging erotic foods) is the alchemy of magically transmuting our sexual energies into materials or substances of significant value.
Aphrodisiac Foods
"Man is lead by the hair of a drive that is stronger than he is."
We must visit the Greek culture to first understand the roots of aphrodisiac. Aphrodite was the Greek Goddess of Love. She was the femme fatale of the Romans. The word Aphrodisiac derived from the love of Aphrodite. Aphrodisiacs have long been sought after because it is believed that they enhance the greatest earthly pleasure given: Sex.
The aphrodisiac's purpose is to enhance sexual urges & desire, (libido) and the sexual drive. They have been used for thousands of years. Many drugs are plant based, yet nature is always way ahead of man and his inventive mind. Without plants many man-made drugs would have never come to be.
Our ancestors used aphrodisiac plants for purposes of seduction, to spice up sex life, to improve potency and to remedy infertility and sterility.
Some Aphrodisiac Foods:
Agave--Agavaceae-- Mexico-ritual inebriant. Fermented juice, or agave wine, called pulque, from the peduncle is used. Add few seeds of horn apple to increase effect. Tequila is distilled from Agave Tequilana. Other spices used to make schnapps called mescal.
Asparagus --Asparagus officinales-- diuretic, it stimulates activity of kidneys and is depurative. People who eat a lot of asparagus have also many lovers.
Cacao Tree --Theobroma cacao) Central America-mild stimulant, ground beans made into drink or chocolate bar. Ancient Indian recipe of chocolate: Roasted beans are ground and dissolved in water, along with vanilla, cayenne pepper, matico pepper, pimento, cinnamon, squash seeds. A cup of gold can be salty or sweetened with honey. Cocoa was considered the "food of gods"; Aztec prostitutes were paid in cocoa. Beans contain theobromine and caffeine, aphrodisiac phenylethylamine.
Celery --Apium graveolenns--stimulant, fresh root eaten, it strengthen the sex organs. Celery root contains an essential oil and minerals iron, calcium, magnesium, sulphur, phosphorus.
Date Palm --Phoenix dactilifera--Asia, Arabia, North America- invigorate, inebriant, dates eaten, palm wine drunk. Add preparations of nightshade, hemp or opium for better results.
Durian Fruit has an intriguing reputation in Southeast Asia as having aphrodisiac properties. It is not clear whether this is attributed to some substance in the fruit pulp
Oyster Meat -- Oyster extract is excellent for men's reproductive health and endurance. It is a rich source for the amino acid taurine, which has a cardio-protective effect and also in nerve transmission. Historically known as an aphrodisiac, flavanoids in oyster meat have been shown to stimulate the reproductive system
Pimento --Pimenta dioica-- Central America, Caribbean- stimulant, one of the most common spices in ancient America and Indian folk medicine. It warms the body and becomes an aphrodisiac when taken in large quantities, especially with cocoa. Contains essential oils
Pineapple --Ananas cosmosus-- diuretic, invigoration! Has a great digestive effect, a purifying effect. Use fresh fruit juice. For aphrodisiac effects to work-- eat pineapple with chili powder or mixed with honey and rum. A small glass taken daily promotes energies of love.
Pomegranate tree --Punica granatum-- Mediterranean, Asia Minor- invigorator! The fruits are eaten-- the fruit is sacred to Aphrodite. The rinds are rich in tannins.
Sea Bean --Canavalia maritima-- South America, Africa- psychedelic, the beans have aphrodisiac qualities. They are ingested or smoked in the place of marijuana. In ancient America these beans were used in magic and rituals, they have been found in the prehistoric graves. The active substance is L-betonicine.
Squash --Curcubita pepo--America - diuretic, invigorator, seeds eaten and aphrodisiac for women. In Aurvedic and Tantric systems seeds eaten during rituals of love, and belong to vajicarana. Seeds contain fatty oil, protein and vitamin E that is important for healthy sexuality.
Sweet Potato --Ipomoea batatas--Sental and South America - invigorator! Excessive consumption stimulates the woman's sex drive.
Thorn Apple --Datura species, Solanaceae-- strong psychodelic, very erotic, plant of prophesy and witches plant. Leaves or flowers brewed into tea, seeds eaten, herbage smoked. All species and all parts contain highly active tropane alkaloids.
Wild Lettuce --Lactuca virosa--Europe, North America -narcotic, dried sap smoked for ritual purposes and as a sexual stimulant. Contains an alkaloid lactusine which has qualities that are similar to morphine.
Basil --Ocimum sanctum-- South Asia, Europe - used as spices, medical uses Eat one leaf a day to: maintain health, prosperity, and fertility. Basil gives for an exciting sex life. The popular spice basil (Ocimum basilicum) also possesses aphrodisiac powers. Contains essential oil, tannins and vitamins.
Cardamom - Cardamon is a sensual spice considered to have aphrodisiac properties. With a peculiar nature, it cools the body when it is hot and warms it when it is cold. Cleopatra used to take baths in cardamom.
Cardamom - Elettaria cardamomum --Southeast Asia - It is a stimulant especially if added to coffee. Its essential oil has an erotic effect.
Cayenne Pepper Capsicum Annuum, Solanaceae-- Middle and South America - stimulant, irritant, fresh or dried fruits eaten. It heats the sexual drive. It has irritating effects on membranes and urogenital area. Contains acrid substance capsicum and a lot of vitamin C. Avoid over dosage.
Cayenne is also known as capsicum and plays a very large role in blood circulation. When cayenne is ingested, it dilates blood vessels. This allows increased blood flow throughout the body, especially in the major organs. The male penis benefits greatly from the ingestion of cayenne. It is a widely held belief that cayenne aids in longer lasting erections, with stronger ejaculations and more intense orgasms. No wonder African men are sexually powerful!
Meals rich in fruits and vegetables provide beneficial nutrients that keep organs in peak condition and energy at maximum levels, both of which are essential for lovemaking.
Stay away from fried foods and rich cream sauces. They can leave us feeling more sluggish than sexy. Too much sugar, salt, saturated fat and highly processed foods are linked to frigidity, difficulty reaching orgasm and lack of interest in sex. Sounds familiar? Scaling back on these foods will help revive and preserve sexual vitality and enhance total well-being. Put a cap on the overindulgence of alcohol and coffee, and skip tobacco completely. These "pleasure drugs" take away from the depths, experience and authenticity of the feelings and the loving making act. Some indulgences are beneficial. The rich, delicious decadence known as chocolate contains phenylalanine, an amino acid that raises the body's endorphins - our natural antidepressants. Enjoyed in moderation, a few pieces can lift libido, providing a tantalizing prelude to sex. (But please don't overindulge!)
Indulge in this one... a blend that is out of this world: EATING and MAKING-LOVE! Using food while making love. This can be such a tantalizing, erotic combination... if you do them slowly!! Hey...remember no rush!
*The contents on this article are informational only! Experiment wisely and consciously!
Angelique Shofar is a sexual wellness & sensual lifestyle coach; a tantric yoga/dance teacher & freelance writer. She facilitates sensual~ cultural events, retreats & workshops around holistic sexuality, wellness & empowerment. She is the founder and director of The Spirit of Wellness. Visit her online at: http://thesexualgriot.typepad.com and her blog at http://sexualgriot.blogspot.com Email her at: thesexualgriot@gmail.com
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Having been born and raised in another culture, I have to admit that eating became a habit of emotional response after living in America for some time. The colorful, rich, perfect looking food commercials that lace the screens of the "tell-lie-vision" and magazine pages, makes a big impression on the psyche. With so many years of expressing and seeking sensual, erotic moments through food I know first hand, the power of food...... as well as the dis-empowerment associated with food. The many times when my desire for physical pleasure and stimulation were unmet naturally, I sought ecstasy through foods. And it came with a price!
Eating is a highly erotic experience. The process is like love-making in many respects. The foreplay can be seen as the preparation that extends into the dishing up of food onto yours and your lovers plate. Eating it is the actual love-making phrase when deep penetration and mastication takes place. The saliva excreted as love juice mixes the flow and enhances the potency of those pleasurable moments. The intimate and sensual edge of eating together, in same bowl, with well washed hands - as spoon- is an erotic eating tradition that I know so well. Growing up on the first continent brought intimacy and trust through eating from the same bowl or calabash with others.
But we are too busy to even slow down and experience the erotic power of foods here in the wild wild West. And in seeking ways to enhance intimate relationships, we often overlook simple paths like the erotic nature of food -a basic necessity. Slowing down is a fundamental aspect of Tantra. I used to have "dates" with myself where I would turn my telephone ringer offer and take my own sweet time cooking dinner and preparing the table for me, I and myself! Those were powerful and pleasurably silent moments filled with sounds rather than words.
The Tantric tradition is in favor of eating in moderation and choosing food that is seasonal. When we are present within ourselves we can hear and feel the body more clearly. Conscious cooking and conscious eating bring out the erotic power in food that may ring, sounds and feel different from person to person. In those moments the messages we get from our foods can open us to the erotic and or healthy energies of foods
In Hatha Yoga traditions one should refrain from eating excessively acid, bitter, salty or pungent foods. And advises that "Half the stomach should be filled with food, one quarter with water or other liquid, and one quarter should be empty to aid the practice of breath control." How do you measure, you're probably asking? I'd like to know myself.
The mental attitude of the person preparing the food pervades each item like the herbs and seasonings that penetrate the outer layers and the exterior of our edibles. Likewise, the mental body in turn influences the digestive process. Eating while upset, or while sitting before the television or behind the wheel takes away from the sacramental quality of eating. It is this sacramental quality that is filled with the power of erotic. The link to erotic power begins through the blessing of and remembrance of the source of the food. I always fill my food with love and light, raising the vibration of what I put into my mouth and body. Rushing to make already quick meals only robs you of the healing erotic and aphrodisiac properties of cooking. These are meant to be God filled meditation moments that symbolize and activate the nurturing and nourishing our body needs. Cooking (and arranging erotic foods) is the alchemy of magically transmuting our sexual energies into materials or substances of significant value.
Aphrodisiac Foods
"Man is lead by the hair of a drive that is stronger than he is."
We must visit the Greek culture to first understand the roots of aphrodisiac. Aphrodite was the Greek Goddess of Love. She was the femme fatale of the Romans. The word Aphrodisiac derived from the love of Aphrodite. Aphrodisiacs have long been sought after because it is believed that they enhance the greatest earthly pleasure given: Sex.
The aphrodisiac's purpose is to enhance sexual urges & desire, (libido) and the sexual drive. They have been used for thousands of years. Many drugs are plant based, yet nature is always way ahead of man and his inventive mind. Without plants many man-made drugs would have never come to be.
Our ancestors used aphrodisiac plants for purposes of seduction, to spice up sex life, to improve potency and to remedy infertility and sterility.
Some Aphrodisiac Foods:
Agave--Agavaceae-- Mexico-ritual inebriant. Fermented juice, or agave wine, called pulque, from the peduncle is used. Add few seeds of horn apple to increase effect. Tequila is distilled from Agave Tequilana. Other spices used to make schnapps called mescal.
Asparagus --Asparagus officinales-- diuretic, it stimulates activity of kidneys and is depurative. People who eat a lot of asparagus have also many lovers.
Cacao Tree --Theobroma cacao) Central America-mild stimulant, ground beans made into drink or chocolate bar. Ancient Indian recipe of chocolate: Roasted beans are ground and dissolved in water, along with vanilla, cayenne pepper, matico pepper, pimento, cinnamon, squash seeds. A cup of gold can be salty or sweetened with honey. Cocoa was considered the "food of gods"; Aztec prostitutes were paid in cocoa. Beans contain theobromine and caffeine, aphrodisiac phenylethylamine.
Celery --Apium graveolenns--stimulant, fresh root eaten, it strengthen the sex organs. Celery root contains an essential oil and minerals iron, calcium, magnesium, sulphur, phosphorus.
Date Palm --Phoenix dactilifera--Asia, Arabia, North America- invigorate, inebriant, dates eaten, palm wine drunk. Add preparations of nightshade, hemp or opium for better results.
Durian Fruit has an intriguing reputation in Southeast Asia as having aphrodisiac properties. It is not clear whether this is attributed to some substance in the fruit pulp
Oyster Meat -- Oyster extract is excellent for men's reproductive health and endurance. It is a rich source for the amino acid taurine, which has a cardio-protective effect and also in nerve transmission. Historically known as an aphrodisiac, flavanoids in oyster meat have been shown to stimulate the reproductive system
Pimento --Pimenta dioica-- Central America, Caribbean- stimulant, one of the most common spices in ancient America and Indian folk medicine. It warms the body and becomes an aphrodisiac when taken in large quantities, especially with cocoa. Contains essential oils
Pineapple --Ananas cosmosus-- diuretic, invigoration! Has a great digestive effect, a purifying effect. Use fresh fruit juice. For aphrodisiac effects to work-- eat pineapple with chili powder or mixed with honey and rum. A small glass taken daily promotes energies of love.
Pomegranate tree --Punica granatum-- Mediterranean, Asia Minor- invigorator! The fruits are eaten-- the fruit is sacred to Aphrodite. The rinds are rich in tannins.
Sea Bean --Canavalia maritima-- South America, Africa- psychedelic, the beans have aphrodisiac qualities. They are ingested or smoked in the place of marijuana. In ancient America these beans were used in magic and rituals, they have been found in the prehistoric graves. The active substance is L-betonicine.
Squash --Curcubita pepo--America - diuretic, invigorator, seeds eaten and aphrodisiac for women. In Aurvedic and Tantric systems seeds eaten during rituals of love, and belong to vajicarana. Seeds contain fatty oil, protein and vitamin E that is important for healthy sexuality.
Sweet Potato --Ipomoea batatas--Sental and South America - invigorator! Excessive consumption stimulates the woman's sex drive.
Thorn Apple --Datura species, Solanaceae-- strong psychodelic, very erotic, plant of prophesy and witches plant. Leaves or flowers brewed into tea, seeds eaten, herbage smoked. All species and all parts contain highly active tropane alkaloids.
Wild Lettuce --Lactuca virosa--Europe, North America -narcotic, dried sap smoked for ritual purposes and as a sexual stimulant. Contains an alkaloid lactusine which has qualities that are similar to morphine.
Basil --Ocimum sanctum-- South Asia, Europe - used as spices, medical uses Eat one leaf a day to: maintain health, prosperity, and fertility. Basil gives for an exciting sex life. The popular spice basil (Ocimum basilicum) also possesses aphrodisiac powers. Contains essential oil, tannins and vitamins.
Cardamom - Cardamon is a sensual spice considered to have aphrodisiac properties. With a peculiar nature, it cools the body when it is hot and warms it when it is cold. Cleopatra used to take baths in cardamom.
Cardamom - Elettaria cardamomum --Southeast Asia - It is a stimulant especially if added to coffee. Its essential oil has an erotic effect.
Cayenne Pepper Capsicum Annuum, Solanaceae-- Middle and South America - stimulant, irritant, fresh or dried fruits eaten. It heats the sexual drive. It has irritating effects on membranes and urogenital area. Contains acrid substance capsicum and a lot of vitamin C. Avoid over dosage.
Cayenne is also known as capsicum and plays a very large role in blood circulation. When cayenne is ingested, it dilates blood vessels. This allows increased blood flow throughout the body, especially in the major organs. The male penis benefits greatly from the ingestion of cayenne. It is a widely held belief that cayenne aids in longer lasting erections, with stronger ejaculations and more intense orgasms. No wonder African men are sexually powerful!
Meals rich in fruits and vegetables provide beneficial nutrients that keep organs in peak condition and energy at maximum levels, both of which are essential for lovemaking.
Stay away from fried foods and rich cream sauces. They can leave us feeling more sluggish than sexy. Too much sugar, salt, saturated fat and highly processed foods are linked to frigidity, difficulty reaching orgasm and lack of interest in sex. Sounds familiar? Scaling back on these foods will help revive and preserve sexual vitality and enhance total well-being. Put a cap on the overindulgence of alcohol and coffee, and skip tobacco completely. These "pleasure drugs" take away from the depths, experience and authenticity of the feelings and the loving making act. Some indulgences are beneficial. The rich, delicious decadence known as chocolate contains phenylalanine, an amino acid that raises the body's endorphins - our natural antidepressants. Enjoyed in moderation, a few pieces can lift libido, providing a tantalizing prelude to sex. (But please don't overindulge!)
Indulge in this one... a blend that is out of this world: EATING and MAKING-LOVE! Using food while making love. This can be such a tantalizing, erotic combination... if you do them slowly!! Hey...remember no rush!
*The contents on this article are informational only! Experiment wisely and consciously!
Angelique Shofar is a sexual wellness & sensual lifestyle coach; a tantric yoga/dance teacher & freelance writer. She facilitates sensual~ cultural events, retreats & workshops around holistic sexuality, wellness & empowerment. She is the founder and director of The Spirit of Wellness. Visit her online at: http://thesexualgriot.typepad.com and her blog at http://sexualgriot.blogspot.com Email her at: thesexualgriot@gmail.com
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Saturday, July 12, 2008
5 Hot Tips to Get Her to Have Sex with You Every Time!
It is every man wish to get her partner to have sex with him whenever he wants it, am I right? If you understand women well enough, there are actually a few factors that will determine whether they will want to have sex with you or not.
1. Women are very emotional, especially when it comes to sex. You must not just treat her well only when you want sex from her. You should spend quality time with her outside the bedroom to let her feel that she is loved by you and that you care about her.
2. Do not threaten your partner to have sex with you. Do not get angry and be mad at her when she does not want to go to bed with you. You must let her feel that you love her not because of the sex.
3. Be creative and innovative when having sex with her. Both of you should explore new things and satisfy each other’s sexual fantasies, by performing cross-dressing. Read some good literature on the subject will help you a lot.
4. Women view sex very differently from men. Therefore you must understand that how different the women are from you. Men find sexual pleasure in looking at sexy or naked women, but naked men are irrelevant for women. Women get excited by being touched and therefore foreplay is so important if you want to have a good sex with her.
5. Be sensitive to what women want in bed. If you just think about your own pleasure, and not give her what she needs, she will not want to have sex with you.
These tips can greatly improve your sex life if you practice them often enough. You will be obsessed in it when you see the results.
Crid Lee is the webmaster of TheKamaSutraOnline.com
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1. Women are very emotional, especially when it comes to sex. You must not just treat her well only when you want sex from her. You should spend quality time with her outside the bedroom to let her feel that she is loved by you and that you care about her.
2. Do not threaten your partner to have sex with you. Do not get angry and be mad at her when she does not want to go to bed with you. You must let her feel that you love her not because of the sex.
3. Be creative and innovative when having sex with her. Both of you should explore new things and satisfy each other’s sexual fantasies, by performing cross-dressing. Read some good literature on the subject will help you a lot.
4. Women view sex very differently from men. Therefore you must understand that how different the women are from you. Men find sexual pleasure in looking at sexy or naked women, but naked men are irrelevant for women. Women get excited by being touched and therefore foreplay is so important if you want to have a good sex with her.
5. Be sensitive to what women want in bed. If you just think about your own pleasure, and not give her what she needs, she will not want to have sex with you.
These tips can greatly improve your sex life if you practice them often enough. You will be obsessed in it when you see the results.
Crid Lee is the webmaster of TheKamaSutraOnline.com
Do visit http://www.TheKamaSutraOnline.com to download your FREE report of the 15 Best Techniques on KamaSutra.
Crid Lee also also owns the site WhyWomenPlayHardToGet.com You can visit it at http://www.WhyWomenPlayHardToGet.com
Please feel free to republish this article on your website, or distribute it to your friends or clients, as long as you leave the resource box intact.
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Lovemaking Secrets and Tips
Inside this article you'll learn some great sex tips, for both men and women, and whether you are in a relationship or not you will find them useful. So read on to become a master lovemaker...
Top 2 Sex Tips For Men
* Place her arms behind your head. This results in a steamy hot connection which she will love. The best time to do this is when in the missionary position...
* You need to practice holding off ejaculating during masturbation to increase endurance during real sex. This is VERY important!
* Initiate the 69 sex position - it's oral sex for both of you at the same time, but it's amazing that most couples don't do this position very often.
* Be spontaneous and UNPREDICTABLE. Mix it up in the sack to provide a more interesting experience for both of you.
Top 2 Sex Tips For Women
* Guys love it when a woman takes the initiative during sex. Order YOUR man to perform certain sexual acts...
* Get on top! The most sensual position for most women is being on top. So ride your man to a great climax!
* Initiate sex by masturbating in front of your man - this is a huge turn on for him and will guarantee a hot session.
* Again, same tip for women - be spontaneous and unpredictable. This keeps the sexual arousal higher than if you use the same position for 20 minutes...
These are just a few brilliant sex tips to increase your sexual pleasure AND performance. There are many, many more to be learnt and I recommend you do so if you want to be a master lover. To find out much more about sex and lovemaking visit The Sex God...
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Top 2 Sex Tips For Men
* Place her arms behind your head. This results in a steamy hot connection which she will love. The best time to do this is when in the missionary position...
* You need to practice holding off ejaculating during masturbation to increase endurance during real sex. This is VERY important!
* Initiate the 69 sex position - it's oral sex for both of you at the same time, but it's amazing that most couples don't do this position very often.
* Be spontaneous and UNPREDICTABLE. Mix it up in the sack to provide a more interesting experience for both of you.
Top 2 Sex Tips For Women
* Guys love it when a woman takes the initiative during sex. Order YOUR man to perform certain sexual acts...
* Get on top! The most sensual position for most women is being on top. So ride your man to a great climax!
* Initiate sex by masturbating in front of your man - this is a huge turn on for him and will guarantee a hot session.
* Again, same tip for women - be spontaneous and unpredictable. This keeps the sexual arousal higher than if you use the same position for 20 minutes...
These are just a few brilliant sex tips to increase your sexual pleasure AND performance. There are many, many more to be learnt and I recommend you do so if you want to be a master lover. To find out much more about sex and lovemaking visit The Sex God...
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